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Read more about the article Rediscovering the Art of Flirting

Rediscovering the Art of Flirting

  • Post author:Cate Mackenzie
  • Post published:May 17, 2023
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Flirting is not just about romantic pursuits; it is an art that opens the doorways to friendliness, sensuality, connection and fun. Flirting is the ‘lightness’ of communication, the playful and…

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Cate Mackenzie on having fun with dating

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  • Post published:February 23, 2023
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In this episode Cate Mackenzie chats with Karis McLaughlin about the ins and outs of dating. Cate is a love coach who supports individuals to build their confidence in dating…

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The story of Valentines

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  • Post published:February 14, 2023
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The story of Valentines is about a man who was in jail for his beliefs in his Christian God. This was in Roman times. The jailor asked this man to…

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Read more about the article The three rules of dating etiquette

The three rules of dating etiquette

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  • Post published:November 29, 2022
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Dating and connecting can seem quite daunting. It can bring up feelings of being tested or judged or fear of being found wanting. But from working with hundreds of people…

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Relationships resolutions for 2022

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  • Post published:January 1, 2022
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Couples, have you set any joint intentions for the year? It’s a great way to share a vision and move in the same direction together, as a team. Here are…

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Navigating commitment issues

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  • Post published:March 15, 2021
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Commitment issues can pose a challenge, whether you’re single and looking for a relationship, dating, or in a relationship. Whether you are the one that has difficulty with commitment, or…

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Couples therapy podcast with Denise Van Outen and Eddie Boxshall

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  • Post published:March 8, 2021
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I am part of a new podcast Before We Say I Do with Denise Van Outen and her partner Eddie Boxshall which has been top of the relationship podcast charts. Denise and…

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What does it mean to experiment during sex?

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  • Post published:September 10, 2020
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People have different expectations, sensibilities and openness in terms of sexuality. Some people enjoy creating their own sex menus and discovering new and different ways to explore their sexuality. This…

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Tips to feel sexy

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  • Post published:August 8, 2020
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Get into feeling innocent – allow yourself to let go and be friendly to lots of people with no expectation, seeing yourself as an engaging loving person. Give compliments, flirt…

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