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Read more about the article I was fine with my partner being anti-marriage – but now we’ve had a baby I’ve changed my mind

I was fine with my partner being anti-marriage – but now we’ve had a baby I’ve changed my mind

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  • Post published:July 14, 2023
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Couples Therapy: My ex wants us to go to Thailand together but I’m torn

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  • Post published:June 23, 2023
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I don’t want my husband to go to a strip club in Vegas – am I controlling?

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Read more about the article My partner is kind, affectionate and emotionally open. I want to break up with him

My partner is kind, affectionate and emotionally open. I want to break up with him

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Read more about the article A satisfying sex life is the perfect stress buster – try these four things

A satisfying sex life is the perfect stress buster – try these four things

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Wendy Sullivan and Paul Field on the art of Clean Language

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In this episode, Cate speaks to Wendy Sullivan and Paul Field about Clean Language, a process and set of questions developed by counselling psychologist David Grove. They explore the simple…

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Rediscovering the Art of Flirting

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Flirting is not just about romantic pursuits; it is an art that opens the doorways to friendliness, sensuality, connection and fun. Flirting is the ‘lightness’ of communication, the playful and…

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Matt and Sarah Davies on their book ‘You, Me and the Space Between Us’

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Matt and Sarah Davies are the authors of You, Me and the Space Between Us: How to (Re)Build Your Relationship, a guidebook for how to create a healthy, loving and lasting…

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Asking for a friend: We haven’t had sex for a year, does it matter?

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Asking for a friend: I’ve never had an orgasm, what should I do?

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Sometimes we move so fast that we forget to pause, breathe and listen to our own hearts.

If you’ve been craving a gentle moment to come back to yourself, I’ve created a set of guided meditations just for you.

🎧 They’re here to help you slow down, soften, open to love and feel more at home in your own body.

You can listen any time you need a little tenderness or a reminder that love lives inside you, waiting to be felt.

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With love,

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Have you spotted the beautiful knitted and crocheted creations appearing on postboxes around our village?
They are made by people in our community who quietly give their time and creativity to bring a smile to anyone passing by.

These small, colourful cosies are more than just decoration. They are gentle acts of kindness and love, brightening our streets and reminding us that joy can come from the simplest gestures.

For me, noticing these tiny bursts of colour is part of what makes life feel rich and meaningful. When we slow down enough to appreciate small, beautiful moments, we begin to weave a life we truly want to live, one filled with kindness, creativity and delight in the everyday.

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    🌹✨ A little love note for you… ✨🌹 Som 🌹✨ A little love note for you… ✨🌹

Sometimes we move so fast that we forget to pause, breathe and listen to our own hearts.

If you’ve been craving a gentle moment to come back to yourself, I’ve created a set of guided meditations just for you.

🎧 They’re here to help you slow down, soften, open to love and feel more at home in your own body.

You can listen any time you need a little tenderness or a reminder that love lives inside you, waiting to be felt.

✨ Explore them here: https://catemackenzie.com/meditations/ ✨

With love,

Cate 💖
    When I paint, I am not just making art. I am nouri When I paint, I am not just making art. I am nourishing myself.
Each brushstroke is a way of listening, of honouring what is alive inside me. I move with the music, I let colour speak, I feel my body soften and my heart expand. Something beautiful happens when we give space to what lights us up. It feels like coming home to ourselves.

In my work with couples and individuals, I often see how easily this can be forgotten. Life becomes about doing and coping. Yet when we choose to engage in what brings us joy, we rebuild confidence, we remember our worth, and we even begin to flirt with the parts of ourselves we most cherish. We become magnetic again, not only to others but to our own hearts.

This is what it means to lead a life filled with everyday pleasure. It is not only about sexuality. It is about noticing and relishing beauty in the world, savouring the warmth of connection, delighting in colour, movement, music, and the small joys that make life feel alive. It is a life that moves away from constant struggle and leans into nourishment and presence.

Painting does that for me. For you, it might be singing, writing, dancing, cooking, planting something and watching it grow. It is less about the activity itself and more about the way it calls you back to your aliveness.

I would love to know, what do you do that feeds your light?

And if my heart paintings speak to you, some are available to bring into your home. Each one is created in this spirit of love, presence and renewal. You can see them through the link in my bio or reach out if one is calling you.

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    💫 From Anxious to Secure 💫 Do you ever feel 💫 From Anxious to Secure 💫

Do you ever feel anxious when someone doesn’t reply? Or find yourself worrying about relationships more than you’d like?

This two-hour workshop with Accredited Sex & Relationship Therapist Cate Mackenzie will help you:

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✨ Learn how to regulate your nervous system
✨ Feel more empowered and authentic in your connections
✨ Build confidence, fun and pleasure practices
✨ Create steadier, safer and more joyful relationships

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