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Chris Lang on happiness, creativity and the duality of life

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  • Post published:November 11, 2021
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Chris Lang is the writer and producer of over one hundred and twenty hours of prime time British drama. He trained at the Royal Academy of Dramatic Art, leaving in…

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Flirting: why everyone should learn the skills

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Why is the idea of sex with someone unattractive repulsive?

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Larry Lamb on acting and fame

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Larry Lamb is an English actor, producer and radio presenter. He played Archie Mitchell in the BBC soap opera EastEnders, Mick Shipman in the BBC comedy series Gavin & Stacey…

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Colin Mackenzie on his book ‘Pressing My Luck’

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The Mackenzie sisters — Cate, Georgia and Tara — talk to their dad Colin Mackenzie about his adventures around the world, including the biggest scoop of all, Ronnie Biggs. Colin…

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Ben Miller on BAFTAS and life

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Ben Miller ditched his Physics PhD at Cambridge University for a career in comedy and acting. He wrote and starred in the Channel 4 sketch show Armstrong and Miller, as…

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Richard O’Brien on kindness, career success and being Trans

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Richard O'Brien is an English-New Zealand actor, writer, musician, and television presenter. He wrote the musical stage show The Rocky Horror Show in 1973, co-wrote the screenplay of the film…

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Are you stuck in a sexless marriage?

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4 ways to increase your sex drive when you’re feeling stressed

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Relationship advice: 25 tips from real couples & dating experts

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That powerful feeling of attraction. The butterflies. The pull. The excitement. It can feel like proof that something meaningful is happening.

But chemistry often reflects intensity, not necessarily emotional safety.
Compatibility shows up differently.
It looks like ease in conversation.
Feeling comfortable being yourself.
Respect for each other’s needs.
A sense that your nervous system can relax. 🌿

The most fulfilling relationships usually include both.
Attraction that excites you.
And connection that feels grounding.
One without the other often creates imbalance.

A reflection to consider.
Do you tend to choose relationships that feel intense, or relationships where you can truly relax? 💭
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You are not alone.

Many people I work with say they would much rather meet someone in real life than on an app.

One gentle way to do this is through shared activities.

When you are doing something together, the pressure disappears. You are not trying to impress or perform. You are simply sharing an experience.

It might be a cooking class.
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Rock climbing.
Life drawing.
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Connection often grows in these simple moments.

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    From Anxious to Secure Attachment ✨ Many of us le From Anxious to Secure Attachment ✨

Many of us learned early in life how to cope in relationships.

Some of us pursue closeness and feel overwhelmed when connection feels uncertain.
Some of us pull away and avoid when things feel too intense.
And many of us move somewhere in between.

In this talk we will explore how attachment patterns form, how they show up in our relationships today, and how we can begin moving towards greater emotional security.

Understanding your attachment style can help you notice what happens in your nervous system when you feel activated, and begin making more conscious choices in how you relate.

This evening will explore how to understand yourself more deeply, process emotions, and cultivate a steadier sense of connection with yourself and with others.

Not perfection.
But feeling a little more steady in your own ship 🤍

📍 The Glee Club, Birmingham
🗓 Wednesday 11 March 2026
🕢 7.30pm to 9.30pm

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    Come Open Your Heart With Me ✨ I am so delighted Come Open Your Heart With Me ✨

I am so delighted to be part of the Mind Body Spirit Festival at Olympia, London this May.

Across the weekend I will be offering a few beautiful heart centred sessions, exploring love, connection and self love 🤍

So if you feel like spending a little time opening the heart together, here is where you can find me.

Saturday 23 May
🕐 1.15pm, Ceremony Dome
Opening Your Heart to Love

Monday 25 May
🕛 12.15pm, Sacred Ceremony Space
Opening Your Heart to Self-Love

🕜 1.30pm, Midlife Wisdom Area
Opening Your Heart to Love in the Midlife Wisdom space

All sessions are free once you have your festival entry ticket.

So if you are wandering through the festival and feel drawn to a little more love, reflection and connection, do come and join me 💫

You can find the festival details through the link in my bio

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