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Read more about the article Chris Lang on happiness, creativity and the duality of life

Chris Lang on happiness, creativity and the duality of life

  • Post author:Cate Mackenzie
  • Post published:November 11, 2021
  • Post category:Podcast

Chris Lang is the writer and producer of over one hundred and twenty hours of prime time British drama. He trained at the Royal Academy of Dramatic Art, leaving in…

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