I teach flirting from the heart. This is about shining from your true self, and making real connections.
Flirting is an innate skill that we can see in both human and animal behaviour. Think of watching young children approaching each other, connecting through warm facial expressions, and body language, to explore friendship. Or puppies bounding up to each other using body posture and eye contact to invite play.
The key to allowing more flow in connection is the ability to create a warm invitational space, rather than an expectation or demand. When we are relaxed and open, it’s much easier to create connections in a more fluid, fluent way.
In flirting coaching we will look at how much fun and self-care you have in your life. I will guide you to connect to your sensuality so that you feel irresistible from the inside out. This transforms the way you interact with the world.
What we will do
- Help you to reach out to people again.
- Look at your relationship templates.
- What do you want?
- Overcoming blindspots in dating.
- Simple outlines for dating.
- Optional deeper work to heal attachment wounds.
- Pleasure practices, what gives you pleasure?
- Flirting guidelines using body, tone, pace, and language.
Individuals: Research shows that not knowing how to flirt is the main reason behind ‘involuntary singlehood’. If you’ve been single for a while, it can be very difficult to find the confidence to approach another person. You might struggle to signal your feelings in a way that can be read by others. If you feel stressed about connecting, you may have stress hormones rushing through your system. I’ll teach you how to slow down and build your confidence so that you can connect naturally and effortlessly.
Couples: You might think that flirting is only for singles. But it is an important skill to keep up in relationships. At the beginning of relationships adult humans adopt techniques to attract another through body language, tone of voice, eye contact and facial expression. We invite exploration, we show our attraction, and we learn to play together.
When we first meet, we often can’t get enough of each other. Looking, holding, talking, hanging out, dating, and generally reaching for each other. There is a window when the boundaries have been released, and the other person seems totally ideal. As relationships develop and life becomes more serious, we tend to lose the ability to play, and flirting becomes a thing of the past. Once we commit, the partner becomes “family”, and we judge them, and it is tempting to try to pursue or withdraw from the other in order to protect the relationship. As both people build more and more protection, there can be a loss of that sweet heart centred connected space. What I aim to do, is to help you both find that bubble of love again, and nurture that loving spark. Rediscovering flirting can really lift a relationship and bring back the joy.
I can teach you:
- How to become magnetic and radiant
- How to connect with your sensual self
- The stages of flirting
- Good and bad ways of flirting
- Where to hang out to flirt
- How to make a connection with ease
- How to navigate the dating world and feel good about it
- What to wear on dates
I offer tailored sessions to individuals and couples on the art of flirting. This would be an initial session and then a package of 6 sessions with a journey to build your confidence and ease in connecting with yourself and others.