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Read more about the article Dating After Divorce: Flirting, Healing, and Finding Your Confidence Again

Dating After Divorce: Flirting, Healing, and Finding Your Confidence Again

  • Post author:Cate Mackenzie
  • Post published:August 20, 2025
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Change is the one constant in life. As the Buddhists remind us, it’s inevitable, and sometimes it brings with it challenges we didn’t ask for. Whether it’s navigating divorce, supporting…

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Deep Brain Reorienting! 

  • Post author:Emma Alexandra
  • Post published:June 6, 2025
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Pictured above is Armukara Angel, Vinny Jones and me in the Ceremony Dome at The Mind Body Spirit Festival last Sunday where I ran an "Open Your Heart" session. I…

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Read more about the article Summer with Your Love Coach

Summer with Your Love Coach

  • Post author:Emma Alexandra
  • Post published:May 23, 2025
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Can you feel it? That soft shimmer of summertime just beginning to stretch across the days — a time of renewal, clarity, and blossoming possibilities. As the seasons shift, it’s…

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Spring Is Here

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  • Post published:May 1, 2025
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I hope my readers are enjoying these warmer, brighter days as much as I am!  Recently, I have been “on tour” to Glasgow, Edinburgh, Leeds, Birmingham and London whilst simultaneously…

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A Strange Journey

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  • Post published:April 3, 2025
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I hope you are well. I have had the life-transforming experience of being on tour to Scotland with my attachment talks and running a six-week attachment online course, plus breaking…

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Getting Loved-Up!

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  • Post published:March 14, 2025
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I am writing to share a lovely story of hope around dating, which you can read about below and a tip on love languages. Also, I am on tour in…

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Read more about the article Harmony Rupture Despair Vs Harmony Rupture Repair

Harmony Rupture Despair Vs Harmony Rupture Repair

  • Post author:Emma Alexandra
  • Post published:January 25, 2025
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I am really thrilled to be running a six week online course on attachment theory, designed to help one explore their own attachment and needs, but also how to respond to…

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Happy New Year!

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  • Post published:January 1, 2025
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There is so much going on in the world, and so many people need love and care. It seems that community is becoming more and more essential, and I am…

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Merry Christmas!

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  • Post published:December 20, 2024
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I wanted to write a little message to wish you well. This time of year can be simple for some and complex for others. Some people do not celebrate Christmas, so…

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Me, my Mum, and sisters.

Obsession and Benetton Jumpers!

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  • Post published:December 6, 2024
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I need to do my taxes at the moment, and I will find any excuse to avoid doing them. I can fret about tidying my home, wonder endlessly whether someone…

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    🌹✨ A little love note for you… ✨🌹 Som 🌹✨ A little love note for you… ✨🌹

Sometimes we move so fast that we forget to pause, breathe and listen to our own hearts.

If you’ve been craving a gentle moment to come back to yourself, I’ve created a set of guided meditations just for you.

🎧 They’re here to help you slow down, soften, open to love and feel more at home in your own body.

You can listen any time you need a little tenderness or a reminder that love lives inside you, waiting to be felt.

✨ Explore them here: https://catemackenzie.com/meditations/ ✨

With love,

Cate 💖
    📬 Little Stitches of Kindness and Love in Rotti 📬 Little Stitches of Kindness and Love in Rottingdean 🧶✨

Have you spotted the beautiful knitted and crocheted creations appearing on postboxes around our village?
They are made by people in our community who quietly give their time and creativity to bring a smile to anyone passing by.

These small, colourful cosies are more than just decoration. They are gentle acts of kindness and love, brightening our streets and reminding us that joy can come from the simplest gestures.

For me, noticing these tiny bursts of colour is part of what makes life feel rich and meaningful. When we slow down enough to appreciate small, beautiful moments, we begin to weave a life we truly want to live, one filled with kindness, creativity and delight in the everyday.

With love,
Cate

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    This is a two hour online workshop to meditate on This is a two hour online workshop to meditate on your heart, to share visions with one other or any blocks you might have and create an intention and/or action to support your wishes.  #lovecoaching #relationships#visions. Link below in comments
    🌹✨ A little love note for you… ✨🌹 Som 🌹✨ A little love note for you… ✨🌹

Sometimes we move so fast that we forget to pause, breathe and listen to our own hearts.

If you’ve been craving a gentle moment to come back to yourself, I’ve created a set of guided meditations just for you.

🎧 They’re here to help you slow down, soften, open to love and feel more at home in your own body.

You can listen any time you need a little tenderness or a reminder that love lives inside you, waiting to be felt.

✨ Explore them here: https://catemackenzie.com/meditations/ ✨

With love,

Cate 💖
    When I paint, I am not just making art. I am nouri When I paint, I am not just making art. I am nourishing myself.
Each brushstroke is a way of listening, of honouring what is alive inside me. I move with the music, I let colour speak, I feel my body soften and my heart expand. Something beautiful happens when we give space to what lights us up. It feels like coming home to ourselves.

In my work with couples and individuals, I often see how easily this can be forgotten. Life becomes about doing and coping. Yet when we choose to engage in what brings us joy, we rebuild confidence, we remember our worth, and we even begin to flirt with the parts of ourselves we most cherish. We become magnetic again, not only to others but to our own hearts.

This is what it means to lead a life filled with everyday pleasure. It is not only about sexuality. It is about noticing and relishing beauty in the world, savouring the warmth of connection, delighting in colour, movement, music, and the small joys that make life feel alive. It is a life that moves away from constant struggle and leans into nourishment and presence.

Painting does that for me. For you, it might be singing, writing, dancing, cooking, planting something and watching it grow. It is less about the activity itself and more about the way it calls you back to your aliveness.

I would love to know, what do you do that feeds your light?

And if my heart paintings speak to you, some are available to bring into your home. Each one is created in this spirit of love, presence and renewal. You can see them through the link in my bio or reach out if one is calling you.

#HeartArt #CreativityAsHealing #LoveInMotion #EverydayPleasure
    💫 From Anxious to Secure 💫 Do you ever feel 💫 From Anxious to Secure 💫

Do you ever feel anxious when someone doesn’t reply? Or find yourself worrying about relationships more than you’d like?

This two-hour workshop with Accredited Sex & Relationship Therapist Cate Mackenzie will help you:

✨ Understand your attachment style
✨ Learn how to regulate your nervous system
✨ Feel more empowered and authentic in your connections
✨ Build confidence, fun and pleasure practices
✨ Create steadier, safer and more joyful relationships

Join us to explore how to move from anxiety to security — with kindness, confidence and connection.

📅 Date: October 19th 5pm GMT
📍 Online Workshop
🎟 Tickets via link in bio / Eventbrite

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