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Read more about the article Dating After Divorce: Flirting, Healing, and Finding Your Confidence Again

Dating After Divorce: Flirting, Healing, and Finding Your Confidence Again

  • Post author:Cate Mackenzie
  • Post published:August 20, 2025
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Change is the one constant in life. As the Buddhists remind us, it’s inevitable, and sometimes it brings with it challenges we didn’t ask for. Whether it’s navigating divorce, supporting…

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Deep Brain Reorienting! 

  • Post author:Emma Alexandra
  • Post published:June 6, 2025
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Pictured above is Armukara Angel, Vinny Jones and me in the Ceremony Dome at The Mind Body Spirit Festival last Sunday where I ran an "Open Your Heart" session. I…

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Summer with Your Love Coach

  • Post author:Emma Alexandra
  • Post published:May 23, 2025
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Can you feel it? That soft shimmer of summertime just beginning to stretch across the days — a time of renewal, clarity, and blossoming possibilities. As the seasons shift, it’s…

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Spring Is Here

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  • Post published:May 1, 2025
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I hope my readers are enjoying these warmer, brighter days as much as I am!  Recently, I have been “on tour” to Glasgow, Edinburgh, Leeds, Birmingham and London whilst simultaneously…

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A Strange Journey

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  • Post published:April 3, 2025
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I hope you are well. I have had the life-transforming experience of being on tour to Scotland with my attachment talks and running a six-week attachment online course, plus breaking…

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Getting Loved-Up!

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  • Post published:March 14, 2025
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I am writing to share a lovely story of hope around dating, which you can read about below and a tip on love languages. Also, I am on tour in…

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Read more about the article Harmony Rupture Despair Vs Harmony Rupture Repair

Harmony Rupture Despair Vs Harmony Rupture Repair

  • Post author:Emma Alexandra
  • Post published:January 25, 2025
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I am really thrilled to be running a six week online course on attachment theory, designed to help one explore their own attachment and needs, but also how to respond to…

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Happy New Year!

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  • Post published:January 1, 2025
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There is so much going on in the world, and so many people need love and care. It seems that community is becoming more and more essential, and I am…

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Merry Christmas!

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  • Post published:December 20, 2024
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I wanted to write a little message to wish you well. This time of year can be simple for some and complex for others. Some people do not celebrate Christmas, so…

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Me, my Mum, and sisters.

Obsession and Benetton Jumpers!

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  • Post published:December 6, 2024
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I need to do my taxes at the moment, and I will find any excuse to avoid doing them. I can fret about tidying my home, wonder endlessly whether someone…

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    This time of year holds many different experiences This time of year holds many different experiences.

Some people celebrate and gather.
Some turn inward.
Some travel, volunteer, retreat, or simply keep working.

There is no “right” way to be with this season.

However it meets you, I’m wishing you tenderness, steadiness, and care.

#SeasonalWisdom #WinterTenderness #GentleLiving #HonouringDifference
    💞 “Love often deepens in the moments no one else s 💞 “Love often deepens in the moments no one else sees.”

The quiet check-ins.
The shared glance across the room.
The hand on the back when life feels heavy.

These small, steady gestures are the heartbeat of love.
Grand gestures are beautiful — but it’s the everyday tenderness that makes a relationship last.

Notice the little things today. They’re the real magic. ✨

What tiny gesture makes you feel most loved?

#EverydayLove #SoftRomance #LoveCoachCate
    🌙 “Emotional safety is the birthplace of real conn 🌙 “Emotional safety is the birthplace of real connection.”

When someone feels safe with you, they soften.
Their shoulders drop.
Their voice steadies.
Their heart opens.

Safety isn’t created through perfection — it’s created through consistency, honesty, and warmth.

Be someone whose presence calms the nervous system.
Love deepens there.

What helps you feel emotionally safe with someone?

#SafeLove #HeartSpace #LoveCoachCate
    Real passion isn’t about intensity — it’s about at Real passion isn’t about intensity — it’s about attention.

Noticing the curve of their smile.

The warmth of their skin.

The way your body responds when you feel truly seen.

Presence turns ordinary moments into sensual ones.
Tonight, slow down and let your senses wake up.

What helps you feel truly desired?

#ConsciousDesire #PassionAwakens #LoveCoachCate
    I absolutely love my comedy nights — and the other I absolutely love my comedy nights — and the other night was extra special 💫

I went to support my friend @tomwardcomedian at @comedystorelondon for the Best British Comedian Competition, and WOW… what a night!

Tom and Vlad were neck-and-neck for the top spot (and with a prize of £10,001 on the line! 👀).
Huge congratulations to @Vladhahaimpaler who took the win — absolutely brilliant performance.

The whole night was packed with incredible acts, including @tal.davies who completely stormed it too! 🔥

Such an electric atmosphere, so much talent, and a perfect night out supporting comedy I adore. 🎤✨

#ComedyNight #LondonComedy #ComedyStoreLondon #StandUpComedy #BritishComedy #ComedyLovers #LiveComedy #ComedianLife #SupportLocalComedy #WhatANight
    🌺 “Tenderness is a powerful form of courage.” It 🌺 “Tenderness is a powerful form of courage.”

It takes strength to stay gentle in a world that can feel sharp.

To speak softly when you could defend.

To open your heart when closing it might feel safer.

Tenderness doesn’t make you fragile.

It makes you brave enough to love fully.

Offer one small act of tenderness today — to yourself or someone else.
It matters. 💛

Where do you find it hardest to stay tender?

#EmotionalCourage #LoveInAction #LoveCoachCate

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