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Hi, I’m Cate. 

I’m a Love Coach, Sex and Relationship Therapist, Artist, and all-round lover of life. 

I help people build emotional and sexual confidence, help individuals find love, and couples rediscover each other.  

I create a safe space where you can take the next steps towards happier, healthier relationships with yourself and others. 

Are you ready to connect with your heart, discover your pleasure, and create a life that you love?

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My mission is to empower individuals and couples to live fully and love fiercely.

Cate Mackenzie

Relationships and sexuality are important areas of life that sometimes need extra love and attention. 

Do you want to learn to flirt and date with confidence and ease? Attract an epic relationship into your life? Find more fulfilment in love and sex?

Or are you in a relationship and would like support in navigating conflict and getting unstuck? Do you long for deeper connection with your partner? Do you want to uplevel your communication or re-ignite your sex life?

You may meet your own resistance on the way, but with a little courage, and with my support every step of the way, you may find yourself opening to a beauty and a love you never dared dream was possible. 

Together, we can do this.

How it works

For Individuals

  • Get connected to your body and sexuality
  • Become orgasmic and sexually empowered
  • Learn how to flirt like a pro
  • Magnetise a partner by discovering your inner radiance
  • Work through resistance and negative belief patterns
  • Rebuild your relationship muscles
  • Create a life that supports more pleasure, fun and self-care

For Couples

  • Create a shared relationship vision
  • Learn profound communication tools to open up a whole new level of intimacy
  • Bring the spark back into your relationship
  • Clean up the emotional space by hearing each other’s pain and finding forgiveness
  • Bring more playfulness into your relating
  • Turn your relationship into a safe and supportive haven

Let’s get started

Work with me as an individual for a customised journey to make powerful changes in your life.

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Work with me as a couple for a tailor-made journey to create big shifts in your relationship.

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Talks, in-person workshops and online courses on flirting, well-being, opening your heart, communication and more!

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Upcoming events

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What people are saying

Cate's coaching and workshop have been life changing for me. Her focus is on enabling clients to deeply embody the qualities they need to embody in order to achieve their goals. In this respect I've found her approach almost unique and incredibly powerful. Cate is also a wonderful human being, supportive, positive and a great model for how to operate successfully in this world by harnessing the power of love.
Anna Meller
I came away tonight with very much to reflect on and slightly more in touch with myself on the journey that is me. Thank you for sharing your insight and knowledge and I hope to see you talk again ❤️☺️ You're brilliant!
Emma
Wow! What an excellent talk! Cate was on point with her knowledge and candour and brilliantly funny too.. everyone got swept along with her dynamic energy and highly engaging content! I recommend heading to see her at the first available opportunity!
Dan
I have to say what a wonderfully inspiring, surprisingly humorous and deeply insightful talk you did today at Brighthelm! I honestly loved it and can’t think of a better way to spend a Wednesday evening 😂 It was great content and even greater delivery (I wish my A Level psych teacher had a bit more of that and perhaps I would have got my predicted grade 😂). But yea, my purpose of this message (other than to tell you what a wonderful human being you seem) was to ask for the podcast details as I’d love to hear more!
Laura
This evening, I had the great pleasure of attending a talk about: The Art of Flirting in The Lodge at Rockwater by Relationship Therapist Cate Mackenzie. Cate is a warm, friendly, very knowledgeable, skilled and experienced people person who really knows her subject and who has an excellent delivery style aided by superb graphics and visuals, all conveyed to us in a fun, open and inclusive way and with interest and humour to engage us from start to finish.
Julie Hove
There was an opportunity to ask Cate questions at the end and each person was listened to and a considered, helpful and supportive reply was given. I personally want to thank Cate and Sophie for an excellent, enjoyable and informative evening, and look forward very much to another of Cate's evenings. Rockwater was the perfect setting, with a lovely relaxing ambience and atmosphere, and we were looked after by the excellent bar staff there. Thank you. Many thanks to everyone, and many thanks again to Cate.
Julie Hove
Cate is a very talented soul and years ago helped me navigate through some very difficult times with a past love. I now find it easier to see the wood for the trees in the love department. These days the person I am truly in love with is myself. Thank you Cate!
Luke Wright
Cate’s Open your Heart workshop is fun, deep, moving and heart opening too as you'd expect. It helps you to become that much clearer about the strength of your own desires and it helps you to hear yourself more fully. Beautifully facilitated by the expert on all things love, sex, intimacy Cate — if you can, do go! It's recommended.
Marissa Owens
I attended Cate’s Flirting Workshop recently with an open mind, not knowing what to expect. In a very upbeat and fun way Cate steered us through a series of simple playful exercises and got us to interact with one another easily. What I didn’t know was that these exercises would unlock reactions, thoughts and feelings, that I wasn’t aware of within me, in a very profound and freeing way. Cate is truly masterful in the way she suggested, nudged and coaxed us through the workshop by making it truly interactive and giving us the tools to be able to take what we wanted from it and leave the rest. Thank you 🙏 so much Cate, I really enjoyed the experience!
I have recently attended one of the delightful Cate MacKenzie’s flirting workshops. Wow! This incredible woman really knows her stuff. She instantly made us feel at ease and the group were quick to start to relax around each other. We felt free to laugh, cry and heal from stored emotions and anything else that was lurking within. It was beautifully presented through movement and music and was such fun. I know I activated parts of myself that had laid dormant for many years and feel really ready to step into an even higher version of myself. Thank you Cate. Your workshop provided immense value for money and insights that were valuable to each and every person in that room. I would highly recommend this playful and joyful workshop to anybody and won’t hesitate in booking another.
TJF
Cate’s disarming personality and generous warmth transformed our group from painfully embarrassed and inhibited into open, playful and flirty over the course of a wildly fun afternoon. I left equipped with some techniques and skills that I will definitely use. Hard recommend.
Louisa R.
I enjoyed the delivery and the content itself- it was easy to understand and implement. You were gently encouraging and open to feedback throughout. I didn't understand attachment styles before this course so thank you for helping me understand myself a bit more. I would attend other trainings/workshops you deliver if I’m available. I would also recommend you to others ❤️
Aisha WF
This was a very enjoyable course that was extremely well delivered. A lot of information was given, but this was done in a very relateable and well-paced manner.  It was very useful to have a workbook and the weekly summary of previous learning was very helpful. There was a good variety of tasks given. Cate always approached each theme with huge amounts of empathy, being very warm, friendly and encouraging throughout! Q and A sections covered many areas and the responses were very insightful and genuine.
Anonymous
Cate is like an encyclopedia of information delivered with an empathic tone, and complete authority.
Anonymous

What people are saying about Therapy and Coaching

Cate's coaching and workshop have been life changing for me. Her focus is on enabling clients to deeply embody the qualities they need to embody in order to achieve their goals. In this respect I've found her approach almost unique and incredibly powerful. Cate is also a wonderful human being, supportive, positive and a great model for how to operate successfully in this world by harnessing the power of love.
Anna Meller
Cate is a very talented soul and years ago helped me navigate through some very difficult times with a past love. I now find it easier to see the wood for the trees in the love department. These days the person I am truly in love with is myself. Thank you Cate!
Luke Wright
Cate’s disarming personality and generous warmth transformed our group from painfully embarrassed and inhibited into open, playful and flirty over the course of a wildly fun afternoon. I left equipped with some techniques and skills that I will definitely use. Hard recommend.
Louisa R.

What people are saying about Courses

I enjoyed the delivery and the content itself- it was easy to understand and implement. You were gently encouraging and open to feedback throughout. I didn't understand attachment styles before this course so thank you for helping me understand myself a bit more. I would attend other trainings/workshops you deliver if I’m available. I would also recommend you to others ❤️
Aisha WF
This was a very enjoyable course that was extremely well delivered. A lot of information was given, but this was done in a very relateable and well-paced manner.  It was very useful to have a workbook and the weekly summary of previous learning was very helpful. There was a good variety of tasks given. Cate always approached each theme with huge amounts of empathy, being very warm, friendly and encouraging throughout! Q and A sections covered many areas and the responses were very insightful and genuine.
Anonymous
I came away tonight with very much to reflect on and slightly more in touch with myself on the journey that is me. Thank you for sharing your insight and knowledge and I hope to see you talk again ❤️☺️ You're brilliant!
Emma
Cate is like an encyclopedia of information delivered with an empathic tone, and complete authority.
Anonymous
Cate is a professional coach and workshop facilitator who is genuine, inspiring and puts everyone at ease right away. The course started with everyone talking about what attracted us to the course and what we wanted out of it, and what we were wishing to change in our lives. She describes the heart as the centre of manifestation and in the course we thought about and worked on what we want to manifest in our lives and how we might do this in terms of behaviours, attitudes to ourselves, others and situations. A lot of healing occurred for everyone and it also felt as if we had been re-writing our outlooks on our lives and what is in our hearts, our heart's desire. Working with unconditional Love and the Heart energy is an energy of renewal – out with the old, in with what or who is love and loving. Our hearts are now set up to give and receive more Love. Brilliant!!! I wish more people would do that and be more themselves, live their soul purpose and their truth – a lot of nonsense behaviours would simply stop that way! This course is for people who have the interest and courage to change as work on the heart chakra is always transformational.
Kirsten Stolz
It was an amazing course, with an amazing, very warm-hearted and inspiring teacher who was able to have her original plans for the workshop changed by the dynamic of the group. Hearing the feedback of all group members, I believe that miracles did happened for all of us during those 4 weeks, as we started to open our hearts. The only downside was, that is was just scheduled for 4 weeks. It could have gone on forever!!!
Barbara
Cate has beautiful energy that spread throughout the course and all participants. It was nice to be in the class, however it could be longer. I attended a weekend course — it would be nice to have some amount of sessions as weekend half-day course — to do the talking and have more time for exercise.
Zuzana Vybralova
The course itself was very refreshing, challenging and innovating. The tutor was the loveliest person ever, a real angel of love! Beautiful day, beautiful group of people.
Irodotos Savvas

What people are saying about Talks and Events

I came away tonight with very much to reflect on and slightly more in touch with myself on the journey that is me. Thank you for sharing your insight and knowledge and I hope to see you talk again ❤️☺️ You're brilliant!
Emma
Wow! What an excellent talk! Cate was on point with her knowledge and candour and brilliantly funny too.. everyone got swept along with her dynamic energy and highly engaging content! I recommend heading to see her at the first available opportunity!
Dan
I have to say what a wonderfully inspiring, surprisingly humorous and deeply insightful talk you did today at Brighthelm! I honestly loved it and can’t think of a better way to spend a Wednesday evening 😂 It was great content and even greater delivery (I wish my A Level psych teacher had a bit more of that and perhaps I would have got my predicted grade 😂). But yea, my purpose of this message (other than to tell you what a wonderful human being you seem) was to ask for the podcast details as I’d love to hear more!
Laura
This evening, I had the great pleasure of attending a talk about: The Art of Flirting in The Lodge at Rockwater by Relationship Therapist Cate Mackenzie. Cate is a warm, friendly, very knowledgeable, skilled and experienced people person who really knows her subject and who has an excellent delivery style aided by superb graphics and visuals, all conveyed to us in a fun, open and inclusive way and with interest and humour to engage us from start to finish.
Julie Hove
There was an opportunity to ask Cate questions at the end and each person was listened to and a considered, helpful and supportive reply was given. I personally want to thank Cate and Sophie for an excellent, enjoyable and informative evening, and look forward very much to another of Cate's evenings. Rockwater was the perfect setting, with a lovely relaxing ambience and atmosphere, and we were looked after by the excellent bar staff there. Thank you. Many thanks to everyone, and many thanks again to Cate.
Julie Hove
Cate’s Open your Heart workshop is fun, deep, moving and heart opening too as you'd expect. It helps you to become that much clearer about the strength of your own desires and it helps you to hear yourself more fully. Beautifully facilitated by the expert on all things love, sex, intimacy Cate — if you can, do go! It's recommended.
Marissa Owens
This was a very enjoyable course that was extremely well delivered. A lot of information was given, but this was done in a very relateable and well-paced manner.  It was very useful to have a workbook and the weekly summary of previous learning was very helpful. There was a good variety of tasks given. Cate always approached each theme with huge amounts of empathy, being very warm, friendly and encouraging throughout! Q and A sections covered many areas and the responses were very insightful and genuine.
Anonymous
Cate is like an encyclopedia of information delivered with an empathic tone, and complete authority.
Anonymous
Cate's talk was excellent, and I object to the psychotherapist who went straight up to Lloyd afterwards (a vulnerable person) to give him her details. Those women were out to pick a fight and take control of the narrative. Grr!!!! Julie xx
Julie

What people are saying about Workshops

Cate's coaching and workshop have been life changing for me. Her focus is on enabling clients to deeply embody the qualities they need to embody in order to achieve their goals. In this respect I've found her approach almost unique and incredibly powerful. Cate is also a wonderful human being, supportive, positive and a great model for how to operate successfully in this world by harnessing the power of love.
Anna Meller
There was an opportunity to ask Cate questions at the end and each person was listened to and a considered, helpful and supportive reply was given. I personally want to thank Cate and Sophie for an excellent, enjoyable and informative evening, and look forward very much to another of Cate's evenings. Rockwater was the perfect setting, with a lovely relaxing ambience and atmosphere, and we were looked after by the excellent bar staff there. Thank you. Many thanks to everyone, and many thanks again to Cate.
Julie Hove
Cate’s Open your Heart workshop is fun, deep, moving and heart opening too as you'd expect. It helps you to become that much clearer about the strength of your own desires and it helps you to hear yourself more fully. Beautifully facilitated by the expert on all things love, sex, intimacy Cate — if you can, do go! It's recommended.
Marissa Owens
I attended Cate’s Flirting Workshop recently with an open mind, not knowing what to expect. In a very upbeat and fun way Cate steered us through a series of simple playful exercises and got us to interact with one another easily. What I didn’t know was that these exercises would unlock reactions, thoughts and feelings, that I wasn’t aware of within me, in a very profound and freeing way. Cate is truly masterful in the way she suggested, nudged and coaxed us through the workshop by making it truly interactive and giving us the tools to be able to take what we wanted from it and leave the rest. Thank you 🙏 so much Cate, I really enjoyed the experience!
I have recently attended one of the delightful Cate MacKenzie’s flirting workshops. Wow! This incredible woman really knows her stuff. She instantly made us feel at ease and the group were quick to start to relax around each other. We felt free to laugh, cry and heal from stored emotions and anything else that was lurking within. It was beautifully presented through movement and music and was such fun. I know I activated parts of myself that had laid dormant for many years and feel really ready to step into an even higher version of myself. Thank you Cate. Your workshop provided immense value for money and insights that were valuable to each and every person in that room. I would highly recommend this playful and joyful workshop to anybody and won’t hesitate in booking another.
TJF
Cate’s disarming personality and generous warmth transformed our group from painfully embarrassed and inhibited into open, playful and flirty over the course of a wildly fun afternoon. I left equipped with some techniques and skills that I will definitely use. Hard recommend.
Louisa R.
I enjoyed the delivery and the content itself- it was easy to understand and implement. You were gently encouraging and open to feedback throughout. I didn't understand attachment styles before this course so thank you for helping me understand myself a bit more. I would attend other trainings/workshops you deliver if I’m available. I would also recommend you to others ❤️
Aisha WF
Cate is like an encyclopedia of information delivered with an empathic tone, and complete authority.
Anonymous
Had an amazing experience. Great balance of emotional reflection & practical experience in a very safe & loving environment.
Kye
Cate really held a safe space for us all to explore and go as deep as we wanted to. The day was fun & natural and I’ve learned important things about the heart to take with me. I may have made a very personal breakthrough today. Thank you!
Monica
Safe, open environment to develop your feelings, thoughts, questions. Lovely experience.
Martha Mullins
It was a holding, caring and empowering space for me to explore and experience love. I definitely take away valuable realizations with me.
Nikola Raginadova
A wonderful day of fun, play and heartfulness. I cannot begin to say what I received from this day because so much has been placed into the pot and will manifest at a later date.
Claire Squarzer
Amazing. Cate dancing & chats.
Regina Chbuda
Loved it, fun and learned a lot about myself. Loved the dynamics and the gifts.
Anonymous